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Mayfly Blog
We'll share musings from our coaches and advice from our experts along the community journey.



One Word for 2026
One focus. One direction. One simple tool to help you progress through the next stage of the journey you’re actually in.
Raj Hayer
Dec 21, 20255 min read


Redefining Success and Personal Profitability
At Wayfinders Summit ’25, finance expert Rebecca Troch shared how redefining success means more than numbers. Through her journey from corporate leadership to founding Counting the Apples, she showed that personal profitability is about clarity, structure, and conscious choice. Her message was simple yet powerful: women don’t need permission to thrive — they’re allowed to be rich on their own terms.

Raj Hayer
3 days ago4 min read


Two Ingredient Sugar-Free Cookies
Today I want to share this super quick and extremely simple two-ingredient sugar-free cookie recipe. As you may have noticed by now, I love a quick and simple recipe! These little beauties are good for breakfast, they go very nicely with a matcha latte or to give to the kids as an after school snack. Literally TWO ingredients and completely SUGAR FREE: Bananas and Gluten Free Rolled Oats. You can get fancy shmancy and add other things like raisins, coconut chips or cacao nibs

Mayfly Maven Blog
Feb 83 min read


Rewiring Our Minds for Wealth
At Wayfinders Summit 2025, Kate Gondouin revealed how neuroscience can rewire our relationship with money. Discover the SCARF and AIR models that reshape wealth from within.

Raj Hayer
Jan 255 min read


Coconut Lentil Curry with Cauliflower Rice
Cauliflower rice has to be the best invention ever! You can steam it or bake it, make it as fine or coarse as you like, it always tastes delicious! And when paired up with this creamy coconut lentil curry it’s just divine! Cauliflower belongs to the cruciferous group of vegetables, renowned for their health benefits. Cauliflower is rich in sulphoraphane, indoles and isothiocyanates which research shows to have anti-cancer properties, be beneficial for heart health as well as

Mayfly Maven Blog
Jan 183 min read


10 Natural Cold & Flu Remedies
Here are my Top 10 Natural Cold & Flu Remedies if you’re feeling a little under the weather. It certainly is the time of year for colds and flus and it’s normal that we should catch the odd thing, but what’s really important is that we recover quickly and naturally. Below are a few things from my ‘medicine’ cupboard. TURMERIC Turmeric’s incredible healing powers have been utilised by Eastern cultures for millenia. The medicinal properties of turmeric come from it’s bright ora

Mayfly Maven Blog
Jan 44 min read


Beyond the Pay Gap: How Bitcoin Empowers Women to Build Financial Futures
At this year’s Wayfinders Summit, we explored one of the most urgent conversations at the intersection of finance, technology, and inclusion. Krista Edmunds, a seasoned finance professional turned Bitcoin advocate, whose conviction and clarity left us both energised and deeply reflective.

Raj Hayer
Dec 28, 20253 min read


One Word for 2026
One focus. One direction. One simple tool to help you progress through the next stage of the journey you’re actually in.

Raj Hayer
Dec 21, 20255 min read


Cacao Quinoa Porridge
Autumn is definitely here and so are warm breakfasts in my house. This cacao quinoa porridge is a really simple quick and easy and very nutritious breakfast that will set you up for the day. Make sure to save I cup of cooked quinoa from the night before and then your hot breakfast will be ready in no time if you have a busy day ahead of you. Eating protein with every meal is super important because amino acids are the building block to our entire body, from tissues and muscle

Mayfly Maven Blog
Dec 14, 20252 min read


Create Your Headline: A Vision Board for Your Mission in Life
Mayfly Maven Toolkit: Create Your Headline What would your life look like if your purpose made the front page? That’s the power of the Create Your Headline exercise, my favourite coaching tool to guide you in visualising and defining your mission in life. It’s a simple but powerful way to create clarity, connection, and momentum for the vision you want to live. Whether you're launching a new business, reimagining your career, or ready to finally put yourself first, this tool

Raj Hayer
Nov 7, 20254 min read


The Network Matrix: Increasing the Value of Your Network
In a world where "networking" often feels more transactional than transformational, it’s time we shift the narrative. The notion of networking as a means to get ahead has diminished the quality and authenticity of our relationships. The good news? There’s a more energising way forward—one rooted in authenticity, alignment, and intention. At Mayfly Maven, we believe your network should be a source of inspiration, not obligation. The Network Matrix is a practical, human-first t

Raj Hayer
Oct 17, 20254 min read


Women’s Wealth at the Wayfinders Summit: Building Prosperity Together
This was more than a conference. It was a movement. A safe space. A launchpad. A rallying cry. We gathered not just to talk, but to build, and to build forward, together.

Raj Hayer
Oct 3, 20254 min read


Navigating Life’s Earthquakes: Remembering Ashley Riehl’s Quiet Strength
This is not just a memorial, it’s a window into the way that Ashley Riehl lived, thought, and led.

Raj Hayer
Oct 1, 20256 min read


Reclaiming Financial Power & Building Wealth on Your Own Terms
Disclaimer: Nothing in the content materials shall be considered legal, financial, or actuarial advice. Photo credit: Mannaïg Fouillen,...

Raj Hayer
Sep 19, 20255 min read


The OK Corral: A Simple Map to Better Reactions and Stronger Relationships
Mayfly Maven Toolkit: The OK Corral In the fast-paced world of leadership, communication, and personal growth, one truth continues to hold: how we perceive ourselves and others directly influences the quality of our relationships. Whether you're leading a team, navigating conflict, or simply trying to communicate more effectively, self-awareness is the starting point, and it’s here that The OK Corral becomes a powerful ally. Originally developed from Eric Berne’s foundationa

Raj Hayer
Sep 5, 20255 min read


From Startup to Scale-Up, Lessons from A Battle-Tested Playbook
Disclaimer: Nothing in the content materials shall be considered legal, financial, or actuarial advice. Photo credit: Mannaïg Fouillen,...

Raj Hayer
Aug 22, 20255 min read


Powerful Negotiations: How to Achieve Optimal Outcomes in Every Conversation
Taken from the Mayfly Maven Powerful Negotiations Toolkit When we think of negotiation, we often picture high-stakes boardroom battles or complex contract talks. But the truth is, we negotiate every day—whether we’re discussing a budget, bedtime with a toddler, or setting boundaries with colleagues. Life is negotiation. In the words of Chris Voss, author of Never Split the Difference , “Negotiation is the heart of collaboration.” And I couldn’t agree more. When approached w

Raj Hayer
Jul 31, 20255 min read


Unlocking the Power of Mastermind Groups: Shared Wisdom, Real Transformation
Taken from the Mayfly Maven Failure Sharing Toolkit For over a decade, I’ve witnessed firsthand how Mastermind Groups transform lives. Whether you’re launching a new venture, navigating a career pivot, or simply craving meaningful connection in your personal development journey, there’s nothing quite like the energy of a well-run mastermind. At its core, a mastermind is about differing perspectives coming together to create something far greater than the sum of its parts—a co

Raj Hayer
Jul 17, 20254 min read


Reset & reflection: A Simple Yet Powerful Path to Intentional Growth
Taken from the Mayfly Maven Reset & Reflection Toolkit In the fast-moving pace of our modern world, it’s easy to move from one project to the next without pausing. But if we truly want to create meaningful progress in our personal and professional lives, we need to make space for something many of us skip: reflection. That’s why I created Reset & Reflection —a tool and mindset that allows us to pause, process, and then plan with intention. Whether you’ve just wrapped up a wor

Raj Hayer
Jul 3, 20254 min read


Failure Sharing: The Untapped Powerhouse of Innovation in Teams
Taken from the Mayfly Maven Failure Sharing Toolkit When we think about innovation, we often imagine bursts of genius, game-changing ideas, and big wins. However the real goldmine for innovation lies not just in what goes right, but in what goes wrong. That’s the magic of failure sharing . Most workplaces have a "success culture". We reward wins, celebrate milestones, and give shout-outs for achievements. And while that’s vital for morale, it also creates a subtle, unspoken r

Raj Hayer
Jun 19, 20255 min read


Life Design for Entrepreneurs: Crafting a Purpose-Driven Business Journey
Life design is for everyone. Even busy solopreneurs and entrepreneurs.

Raj Hayer
Nov 29, 20244 min read
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